People love seeking work-life balance. It's a popular but not-easy-to-achieve thing. My key takeaways for this topic: 1. Rather than thinking it as a "goal", considering it as a "working process" as you need to constantly work on it. 2. In different phases in
1. Long time ago, I decided to free myself from these social norms: - Being genius means going to X school - Being successful means working in X, Y or Z industry - By the age of X, have the title of Y and earning level of Z - Get
When I first started my career, I had a thing called "imposter syndrome". It hurt my performance and mental health. It is loosely defined as "doubting your own abilities": I could not find my voice raised in any meetings. I was afraid of making a point,
It took me a while in my professional career to understand the importance of saying "No". Developing that skill does not come naturally. The uncomfortable feeling is hard to get over sometimes, especially if you feel worried that rejection may screw up your relationship with your co-workers. The